THE YOUNG MAN'S GUIDE.
by
WM. A. ALCOTT.
Twelfth Edition.
Boston: Perkins and Marvin. 1838.
Entered, according to act of Congress, in the year 1835, By Perkins & Marvin, in the Clerk's Office of the District Court of the District of Massachusetts.
TO THE READER.
When I commenced this work, my object was a mere compilation. There were many excellent books for young men, already in circulation, but none which I thought unexceptionable; and some of them contained sentiments which I could not approve. I sat down, therefore, intending to make selections from the choicest parts of them all, and prepare an unexceptionable and practical manual; such an one as I should be willing to see in the hands of any youth in the community.
In the progress of my task, however, I found much less that was wholly in accordance with my own sentiments, than I had expected. The result was that the project of _compiling_, was given up; and a work prepared, which is chiefly _original_. There are, it is true, some quotations from 'Burgh's Dignity of Human Nature,' 'Cobbett's Advice to Young Men,' 'Chesterfield's Advice,' and Hawes' Lectures; but in general what I have derived from other works is re-written, and much modified. On this account it was thought unnecessary to refer to authorities in the body of the work.
The object of this book is to _elevate_ and _reform_. That it may prove useful and acceptable, as a means to these ends, is the hearty wish of
THE AUTHOR
Boston, Dec. 9, 1833.
ADVERTISEMENT TO THE FIRST EDITION.
The great purpose of the Young Man's Guide, is the formation of such character in our young men as shall render them the worthy and useful and happy members of a great republic. To this end, the author enters largely into the means of improving the _mind_, the _manners_ and the _morals_;--as well as the proper management of _business_. Something is also said on _amusements_, and _bad habits_. On the subject of _marriage_ he has, however, been rather more full than elsewhere. The importance of this institution to every young man, the means of rendering it what the Creator intended, together with those incidental evils which either accompany or follow--some of them in terrible retribution--the vices which tend to oppose His benevolent purposes, are faithfully presented, and claim the special attention of every youthful reader.
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ADVERTISEMENT TO THE SECOND EDITION.
The rapid sale of a large edition of this work, and the general tribute of public praise which has been awarded to its merits, instead of closing the eyes of the Publishers or the Author against existing defects, have, on the contrary, only deepened their sense of obligation to render the present edition as perfect as possible; and no pains have been spared to accomplish this end. Several new sections have been added to the work, and some of the former have been abridged or extended.
Table of contents (by pages)
- 1: The Young Man's Guide by William A. Alcott
- 2: Characteristics of an indolent man
- 3: We may be both bashful and impudent
- 4: Lotteries the worst species of Gaming
- 5: Lyceums and other Social Meetings
- 6: Female Qualifications for Matrimony
- 7: This greatly disqualifies them for social enjoyment
- 8: Some may have been heroes in war
- 9: There is one method besides conversation
- 10: Whatever is possible should be aimed at
- 11: You cannot know at least till you are parents yourselves
- 12: And seek wealth for the sake of wealth
- 13: What is the lesson which it constantly inculcates
- 14: There is slavery of several kinds
- 15: Was in the habit of splitting his wafers
- 16: These are very common examples of defective economy
- 17: Completely enchained by indolence
- 18: An indolent person is scarcely human
- 19: There would be no dozing or oversleeping
- 20: The amount would be no less than $182
- 21: And happy than those who are disobedient
- 22: Often implicitly and unconditionally
- 23: But by faithfulness to our employers
- 24: All these merely to tickle the palate of four or five people
- 25: A leg of mutton boiled or roasted
- 26: Is greatly injurious to health
- 27: As the suppers of cities and towns
- 28: Extravagance in dress particularly
- 29: Than that a person may be both bashful and impudent
- 30: Awkwardness is scarcely more tolerable than bashfulness
- 31: Forced complaisance is foppery
- 32: If we dressed or shaved but once a year
- 33: Take care always to BE shaved and dressed
- 34: And who shaved with cold water
- 35: And still more frivolous conduct
- 36: Lead the way to an indulgence of anger
- 37: Became convinced that the Quaker was right
- 38: Zimmerman was sometimes irritable
- 39: Because the earlier you commence business
- 40: That at 60 years of age a far greater proportion of the 1
- 41: Hear one series of medical lectures
- 42: Or did he wait till he was in his 30th year
- 43: Why so many practise this kind of fraud
- 44: All this the seller well knows
- 45: Employing them for purposes not contemplated by the lender
- 46: And he who sets down all his transactions in writing
- 47: If he continues to expend for the necessary charges of life
- 48: Contrive to expend so very differently
- 49: In transactions with the butcher
- 50: Or yield to another temptation
- 51: For example always do it beforehand
- 52: Observe in a sharper an unsteady and confused look
- 53: To take mankind to be more or less avaricious
- 54: Apt to be displeased with those
- 55: These are often among the best of mankind
- 56: And in the same premature manner
- 57: Reckons the fear of poverty as a disease
- 58: They can put away the decanter
- 59: The records of insane hospitals
- 60: Before lawsuits will entirely cease
- 61: That a lawsuit in a neighborhood
- 62: He is equally a public benefactor
- 63: And at best a thriving gamester has but a poor trade of it
- 64: Its scoundrels of every description
- 65: The gamester is almost without exception intemperate
- 66: But as 'the best throw at dice
- 67: It is indeed the same disposition
- 68: Lotteries are a species of gambling
- 69: While lounging about lottery offices
- 70: That respiration contaminates the air
- 71: But retained him in my employment
- 72: To suffer for the crime of pilfering
- 73: Finds tobacco too powerful for his use
- 74: 000 for smoking American tobacco
- 75: When after characterizing all use of tobacco or snuff
- 76: The lyceum is particularly adapted
- 77: Will derive more wisdom from one year's experience
- 78: There is another thing mentioned of Pliny the elder
- 79: Fall to talking on his favorite topic
- 80: Most young men are willing to attend a lyceum
- 81: The strongest plea which indolence is apt to put in
- 82: Never possess a healthy appetite for knowledge
- 83: That every lyceum ought to be furnished
- 84: Previous to the siege of Yorktown
- 85: Except twelve of the grenadiers
- 86: With little aid from grammatical rules
- 87: Well written BIOGRAPHY is next in importance
- 88: Do not take a paper which sneers at religion
- 89: And raked in the afternoon
- 90: Preservation of books and papers
- 91: And indeed by the female sex generally
- 92: And restrain his less honorable feelings
- 93: And promote propriety of conduct
- 94: The trifler can scarcely amuse you for an evening
- 95: Lyceums and other Social Meetings
- 96: Of Female Society in reference to Marriage
- 97: And unable to live in absolute solitude
- 98: Matrimony is a subject of high importance and interest
- 99: Whether we consider education in a physical
- 100: Are the results of deferring marriage
- 101: Much might be expected from celibacy
- 102: No hereditary estates or other adventitious circumstances
- 103: And above all an unprincipled atheistical female
- 104: Is the height of their desires for improvement
- 105: Their hands might be roused to action
- 106: Few traits of female character are more important than this
- 107: ' to attend to its temperature
- 108: The manual performance is absolutely necessary
- 109: To assist her husband in his earnings
- 110: 'This sobriety is a title to trustworthiness
- 111: If you expect trustworthiness at her hands
- 112: There are condiments and poisons to mind and heart
- 113: An animal of this sort is moping
- 114: Whether the beloved object will be industrious or lazy
- 115: And probably no man ever yet saw a sauntering girl
- 116: This means the contrary of extravagance
- 117: A connection between slovenliness
- 118: Rather than live with a slipshod woman
- 119: Along with the foregoing qualifications
- 120: And the mutual and hearty concurrence of both parties
- 121: He will go on from step to step in wickedness
- 122: 'And yet there are such monsters as Burgh alludes to
- 123: Have gone down to infamy through licentiousness
- 124: The temptation harder to resist
- 125: Were now not unfrequently joined in the dance
- 126: Into the practice of the vice to which I have here adverted
- 127: Do they allow themselves to shorten it
- 128: But suppose celibacy in some cases
- 129: To licentious paintings and engravings
- 130: And coarse innuendoes were so common
- 131: Long before nature brings the body to maturity
- 132: Epileptic or falling sickness fits
- 133: Consumption slays its tens of thousands
- 134: Any more of these horrid cases
- 135: And to let his bodily powers be actively employed
- 136: Can scarcely be called a transgression
- 137: The ulcerated perhaps deformed nose and ears
- 138: I am acquainted with more than one parent
- 139: Lucius was a remarkable instance of this kind
- 140: That the practice of uncovering the head
